Aretha spells it: R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Merriam-Webster defines it:
- a relation or reference to a particular thing or situation
- remarks having respect to an earlier plan
- an act of giving particular attention
- the quality or state of being
A thesaurus provides substitute words: appreciates, considerate, dignity, honor, recognize, regard, courtesy, and more
The Cincinnati Enquirer Editorial Board writes it.
Respect, it would seem, is in incredibly short supply in America these days. Inappropriate actions, offensive and rude language and a general lack of manners are, unfortunately, becoming the norm. And increasingly, there seems to be little patience or respect for the diverse ideas or experiences of others.
America has become a nation of absolutists in love with their own perspectives and intolerant of differing ones. But what has always made this country great is its diversity of people and their opinions, ideas and culture. …
Respect for each other’s differing opinions and backgrounds opens the door for healthy dialogue as opposed to the often angry, back-and-forth that masquerades as conversation on social media.”
United States Air Force Lt. General John Silveria says it.
Yes, Frank. Patience and respect seem to be in short supply.
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Cathy,
No argument from me.
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And the post’s title has it spelled it without the ‘s’ because it’s in short supply? 🙂
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Yahooey,
Many thanks. That’s what I get for being in a hurry. Consider it correct … and thanks again!
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Maybe it’s because “S” is in short supply, and not just once, but twice!
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Great post, Frank. Thanks.
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John,
Thank you kind sir!
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Respect is so rare. Does it come only when an individual is able to step away from him/herself and realize others are as important, interesting, and valid as they are?
Mad world in so many ways.
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Mouse,
Interesting point … I’ll add people knowing the difference between agree-disagree and right-wrong … and that difference is huge … and (to me) related to respect.
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The United States Air Force Academy is fortunate to have Lt. General John Silveria as its Superintendent.
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Tim,
Yep … and so is the American public.
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Lack of respect seems to have spread from the top as an example that it is ok to disrespect anyone and everyone. And we must speak out about it as the general has and cannot tolerate it as acceptable. Cheers for this general!
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Jo,
Great point. Many years ago on this blog on asked the following question: Do reality shows mimic society or does society mimic reality shows? Which ever – what we observe in many is a lack of respect.
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Yep, that’s the word! Excellent speech. 🙂
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Marina,
Glad you watched it … a very worthwhile 5 minutes.
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I wish there was a love and respect button! We need more leaders like Silveria. Thanks for posting.
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Patti,
🙂 … thanks for supporting this post!
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You know, I have to agree with the Coastal Crone, if the top of the pyramid is not showing respect, it is also showing that it is okay to disrespect.
I don’t know why parents are not teaching (sorry, I should definitely not generalize) their children respect. I know everyone is so busy trying to live a life, pay bills, obtain stuff, etc. but it so often feels like this most important element is not being taught.
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Dale,
I like you point about “busy” … or as I see it, an excuse to pass the buck (for example, the schools are supposed to teach that).
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I saw the general’s speech posted over and over again by friends on Facebook. I also agree that the idea of respect is definitely not coming from the top. A leader commands respect by demonstrating respect.
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Merril,
As soon as I saw the general’s speech, I knew it would be all over Facebook before I posted it. However, the time was worth making my point.
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I get it, Frank, and I’m with you. Perhaps the words aren’t exact, but the sentiment remains.
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Resa,
Many thanks for the Queen of Soul … and as soon as I decided on doing this post, I had to find a way to incorporate the lyrics. Thanks for posting the song! … and I even displayed it! 🙂
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Respect is an acknowledgment that someone else is just as important as you, perhaps even more so. Respect is a sign of kindness and honor. Respect is lacking in this world, and I think that’s a bad sign.
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Pam,
Great points and I whole-heartedly agree. I like your point about kindness and honor … but I may add that one can decrease the amount of respect they receive by the choices they make.
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